On The Original Nature of Women

 It is absurd how I tend to delve into matters that do not concern me but I will try as much as possible not to sound biased! There are just two genders on Earth and these are male and female and if something is not done, they might end up hurting each other instead of being help mates because while one is pushing for equality, the other is pushing for supremacy! It's all good, everybody should be equal in terms of opportunities.

We may not understand what life is all about unless we have something we live for! I live for the happiness of everyone who cares to listen because that's better compared to living for nothing. A fool at forty is a full forever but a human being who lives for nothing no matter the age is even worse. Let us not speak in parables: the world is sinking without peace.

Originally, a woman is meant to take care of herself, make money and render support to whoever she marries but when you narrow your gaze down to Nigeria, you will find out that it's otherwise. If you have the courage, earn more than a man because no gender is perfect for making money! We're in all these together.

The truth is that time has passed when men used to calm down and provide for their families! Because it was difficult for women to divorce their husbands in the olden days, a man can comfortably provide for his wife and children knowing that he is building up his own family but now that a woman can easily go over to the courts and seek divorce on the ground of irreconcilleable differences, a man finds it difficult to unveil himself because he might be hurting himself if he should tell her everything about himself.

What I am trying to say in essence is that it used to be difficult or unthink of for a woman to divorce a man but now, it's easy and men should be careful! Apart from that, men are not known to be as unreasonable as they are now to the extent of beating their wives. So, you cannot specifically tell a woman to stay and endure the pangs of domestic violence because if you're in her shoes, you wouldn't feel happy.

Women should make money, men should make money. Life is good when you can solve your own problems without depending on anybody especially financially! More over, it is not spectacular to be a beggar! Because it is not prohibited for anyone to make money, it shouldn't be a gender thing!

Nigeria needs urgent cleansing from the waves of misinformation that is ravaging it because if something is not done, we might not have a befitting story to tell our children being that we didn't get it right in our own time! Because of misinformation, some people now think that they are meant to rule forever.

Let us not at this time consider ourselves unworthy to correct these anomalies! Besides, there is no better time to instigate change than now.